Take All the Advice and Be A Top Mom in 2015

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Marking the beginning of each new year is a barrage of promises geared toward self-improvement, even for hard-working moms. In fact, considering how much advice is out there telling us how to mother the right way, it often seems that New Years resolutions were made just for us! Everyone has an opinion on how to improve our parenting skills, so be sure to cross-reference your personal list of weaknesses with this list I’ve compiled — or, as I like to call it, How to Be the Perfect Mother in 2015:

1. Improve your body image this year! Lose the baby weight. Then tell all your friends how much you’re embracing your post-baby body. Be sure to let them know you’ve simultaneously been spending more time at the gym and more time with your kids.

2. Be a Tigercopterphant Mom! Respect your kids’ space at the playground by discreetly and silently surrounding them with your outstretched hands. Black yoga pants will help you maintain the optimal air of invisibility to complement your overbearing nature, so long as they aren’t too tight, too baggy, too sexy, too frumpy, or too perfectly fitted. Let your kids fall so they can learn, but don’t have kids who fall or they may develop anxiety issues that will be your fault. Make sure all activities are both structured and educational while also being imagination-based and open-ended. Learning technology is critical, and educational apps can be fantastic learning tools if you don’t want to take the time to teach them things yourself and don’t mind socially stunted offspring. Mediate playgroup disagreements by inserting yourself into the situation and letting the kids know they must work it out themselves. Then tell them how to do it and walk away so you can not-watch from a safe distance. Hope the other kid’s mom sees your passive-aggressive social media update about snotty kids and the moms who don’t pay attention because they’re always on social media during playdates.

3. Nourish your family better! Breast is best! But only for a few months, and don’t let anyone see you doing it because it’s gross. Spend less time in the kitchen and more time with your kids, but be sure to provide 100 percent organic, homemade meals for them every day. Don’t be afraid to send picky eaters to bed hungry, because you aren’t a short-order cook; just fill cupcake tins and compartmentalized plates with 40 healthy options for them to choose from every two hours. Nutrients are best absorbed when they’ve been eaten off Pinterest-worthy presentations, but if you have time for Pinterest you aren’t paying enough attention to your kids and are, by extension, a bad mom. When all the food ends up on the floor, discipline them in a non-disciplinarian way and scrub immediately with nontoxic cleansers, but spend no time cleaning because CARPE DIEM.

4. Have more “YOU” time without ever leaving your family! If you don’t have a hobby, you will become a pathetic shadow of a person and a terrible role model to your kids, so find a hobby that fits your lifestyle of driving other people around and spending hours getting babies to sleep using the attached-cry-it-out method. Make sure it doesn’t impede on your kids’ schedule or you will be robbing them of their critical learning experiences. Make sure it also doesn’t detract from time spent with your significant other or he will have an affair while you are off trying to become interesting enough to keep the relationship spicy. Note that hobbies outside the home will make you a better mom unless you spend too much time on them, as defined by the amount of time it takes for any member of your household to ask, “Where’s Mom?” If you have a job, you’re already taking way too much time for yourself, so just skip to the next segment.

5. Define your work aspirations! Get a job outside the home so you can fulfill your selfish ambitions and not feel at all guilty about leaving your kids to hit all their adorable milestones with someone else. Quit your job so you can lounge with your kids all day and explain to them that they can’t go to college because you’re still paying off your own student debt for your worthless degree. Work from home so you can have the best of both worlds: sitting at a computer with your kids hanging on your neck and your boob in a baby’s mouth while you pretend that crunching numbers and sending emails from inside Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood is easy. Regardless of which route you choose, belittle every woman you meet who picks a different one, but make sure she knows you back her decision because WE ALL HAVE IT SO HARD, ya know?

6. Support all the other mamas out there! Except for the ones who let their kids eat McDonalds, or the ones who make their kids eat kale, or the ones who wear yoga pants that are tight but in a weird way, or the ones who are selfish enough to get regular manicures or the ones who don’t even take care of themselves enough to get manicures, or the ones who bottlefeed, or the ones who breastfeed giant babies without a cover, or the ones who drink too much or too little, or the ones who go out too much or don’t get out enough, or the ones who drink coffee or the weirdos who avoid caffeine altogether, or the ones who always need help or the ones who never ask for help, or the ones who have obnoxious kids or the ones whose kids are always so well behaved you’re sure they only exist to make you feel like a failure. Everyone else is cool.

This is your year, ladies! Just don’t make it all about you. TEAM MOM 2015!

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